Love Patterns: Dr Strange Multiverse of Madness

 Are you happy 

A question that is always answered with hesitation. The hesitation is a light-speed assessment of the role we are playing in our lives and the constant fight against the world's expectations of who and what we are meant to be.

Dreams are windows into the lives of our multiversal selves

When you dream, the versions you see of yourself are exactly that. Some will decode, and most won't. Those who don't dream, what is the state of your mind and its subconscious, what about the nightmares...how much of your imagination and perception of yourself is limited? Since the dream state is where you spend half of your life, are you okay with thinking that it doesn't have any relevance?

Some dreams you never wanted to wake up from because your body expels the feeling of bliss. Wanda never woke up from hers and chose violence until it could become her reality. 

Your children aren't real, you created them with magic...that's what every mother does...they are real because I dream of them every night

This is the other side of manifestation that people are yet to acknowledge, only ever thinking of the short-term effects. You need to be aware of what your subconscious is saying to you. To shed light on what your life is attracting and the direction it is heading in. Sooner or later you will run out of things to blame.

Many people do this but choose to close their eyes to the events that unveil around them. Just as the saying goes women are in tune with nature, same with their wrath. Pain and loss are reactions to more profound messages. We must nurture ourselves to understand what they are trying to unveil within in. Revenge is childish.

More often it is used as a marvellous excuse to be cold, savage and harmful to everything in our path and is justified as long as that pain is fueled rather than gently being put out.

Pain is never an excuse to act irrationally, yet people will continue to argue that no one understands their suffering and continue to be an arsonist in the name of many things i.e love, betrayal and abandonment. 

You break the rules and become a hero, I do it and become the enemy. That doesn't seem fair

Dream walking is not forbidden. The consequences that follow are the issue. Your sanity slips away to blind you from the pain of reality. Stephen's punishment is that he has to face reality in its rawest form. The same as someone who always has to face the truth and know that every action has a cause and effect. weight of every action. Having no sweet white lies to comfort you can be agony. Yet there is no growth without growing pains.

Wanda justified her actions for her children's love but failed to move on. She had the ability and wisdom to understand that in other universes her children were safe. Painful, absolutely, but everyone else lost everything.

I know better than most what self-deception looks like

The real multi{meta}verse of madness is the confined space of social media. Every day like the we jumping into people's worlds  and take pieces of their madness with us.

In the end, Stephen admitting he was scared of love saved him and another version of Wanda reminded her to trust that her children will be loved in the next life.

Saving the world, people, and your story (career/aspirations/goals/looks) won't necessarily get you to happiness. With all the power Stephen had, he gradually understood that it didn't bring him closer to understanding himself. It takes a lifetime because every day you are a different version of yourself. The aim is to hold onto the version that sees all and says it's okay each and every day that passes.

Listen to the wiser "boring" versions of yourselves, they love you more than the people who hurt you. Their actions were not meant to be taken personally but were always a reflection of their pain and madness.

So I ask again.......are you happy